It's time to pop the cork cork, get out the streamers, balloons and celebrate your success! But what about the ones that don't acknowledge your achievement? They may think you didn't notice, even though you did. It can be very hurtful when it's someone close to you that you love. Just remember you don't need their validation or their praise. It does not diminish your accomplishment. Not having expectations of other people is sometimes a challenge. Unmet expectations are where disappointment happens.
Just know it is not about you, it is about them. Sometimes people don't realize how much they can hurt your feelings. Other times they just lack self-realization and emotional intelligence. Sometimes they are not capable of unconditional love.
In my experience it is best to forgive and just move on. Don't let anyone rain on your parade! Celebrate with those who care enough to celebrate with you. Treasure the people who clap for you when you win.
At the end of the day it doesn't really matter what other people think of you. What really matters is what you think of yourself. Be proud of the things that you have accomplished! Your hard work and dedication have paid off! Only ego needs validation. Soul knows when you are doing something from a place of love and for the right reasons. And that is what counts!
If nobody has told you that you are loved, matter and that they are proud of you today, let me be the first to say it. You are loved. You matter. I am proud of you! Congratulations on your accomplishments!
Now let's go out into the world and spread love, peace and light!
xo Love Bohemian Queen